Success is Subjective: Helping parents of college students accept that dropping out is okay

Episode 135 - What Are You You Going to Do About It?—Matt Nannis

June 14, 2022 Joanna Lilley, MA, NCC Season 2 Episode 135
Success is Subjective: Helping parents of college students accept that dropping out is okay
Episode 135 - What Are You You Going to Do About It?—Matt Nannis
Show Notes

What are you going to do about it? That’s the real question. Whether you’re at a career crossroads or stuck in a 90-day treatment center, what are you going to do about your predicament? The answer might be simple. 

Matt Nannis, Executive Director of PivotPoint WNC, had to ask himself this exact question multiple times throughout his young adult journey –from trying to reach never-ending unrealistic academic expectations, to getting through an intensive 90-day treatment program. Matt spent his first 30 years trying to figure it all out, annoyed at the idea that everyone else already had. A few decades in, and he’s learning to shift the doubts and fears into questions and action, helping others do the same in their own young adult journey.

In this episode of Success is Subjective, Matt joins Joanna to share his journey going from excelling in school, to deep in addiction, and how he managed to find a new version of success for himself. Matt’s story will be sure to keep you on your toes and encouraged to take the more scenic route in your own personal journey. Listen in to gain insight on how Matt learned to pivot and lean into discomfort and how he helps others do the same; guiding them towards healing, equity, inclusion, and connection.

What You Will Learn

The intense academic pressure growing up

How Matt defined his success from a very young age

The never-ending academic competition between his brother

Why Matt didn’t last even a full semester at his first college

Experiencing social anxiety

Comparing other families' highlight reels to your own family’s bloopers

Teaching English in Spain in the middle of college

The toxic internal work journey 

Matt’s time as a carpenter

The ability to reframe the facts of a situation into a more productive use

The crazy story on how Matt was able to graduate undergraduate school 

The intervention that brought Matt to a 90 day rehab

What brought Matt to Asheville 

How going on hikes in treatment eventually changed his life

Why Matt sees himself as 100% successful

Who are you making the decision for?

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