Success is Subjective: Helping parents of college students accept that dropping out is okay

Episode 139 - Raising Adults is Not a One Size Fits All —Deana Thayer

July 12, 2022 Joanna Lilley, MA, NCC Season 2 Episode 139
Success is Subjective: Helping parents of college students accept that dropping out is okay
Episode 139 - Raising Adults is Not a One Size Fits All —Deana Thayer
Show Notes

Raising children into adults isn't a cookie cutter strategy. It’s about much more than taking certain steps –it’s about working alongside your child, with the future in mind.

Deana Thayer, co-founder of Future Focused Parenting, went into college thinking it was about graduating and becoming an adult as fast as possible. When she graduated college with a bachelors at age 20, she thought her career would be a linear pathway. Though, the direction life took her ended up being quite different. Deana ended up taking 7 years off after college to be a stay at home mom, receiving her masters 9 years later. Now, you can find Deana using both her bachelors and masters degrees to help guide parents as they navigate raising their children into adults.

In this episode of Success is Subjective, Deana joins Joanna to share her journey going from thinking she’d never use her speech degree, to using her speech and education degree, and parenting experience to improve the lives of fellow parents and their children. Listen in to gain insight on why raising adults isn’t a cookie cutter strategy and how to set your child up for their own unique success.

What You Will Learn

Why college was so important to Deana’s parents

Going to college as the first born

Why Deana wouldn’t recommend graduating with a bachelors at age 20 

The turn of events that ended up happening after graduating college

Navigating coming back to college after 7 years off as a stay at home mom

What made Deana get a masters in education 

How both of Deana’s degrees ended up blending together perfectly 

When Future Focused Parenting came about 

Parenting with a long range view

Finding the sweet balance of passion and skill set

The different career routes that Deana’s five children have taken

Encouraging your child’s unique gifts

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