Success is Subjective: Helping parents of college students accept that dropping out is okay

Episode 34 — One Situation Doesn't Have to Dictate The Rest of Your Life —with Joshua New

October 20, 2020 Joanna Lilley, MA, NCC Season 1 Episode 34
Success is Subjective: Helping parents of college students accept that dropping out is okay
Episode 34 — One Situation Doesn't Have to Dictate The Rest of Your Life —with Joshua New
Show Notes

Sometimes things don’t always work out. Whether that’s being vulnerable with someone or taking the risk on a career path. Though, what if you didn’t let that one situation that went sideways dictate your life from then on? And instead continued to take risks, using each outcome as a learning experience. 

Joshua New, Executive Director for an addiction treatment center, could have stopped trying many times throughout his journey in addiction. His journey with substances started at a young age and it wasn’t until his 5th time in treatment when he decided to make a lasting change. Instead of giving treatment one last try and taking the chance to connect with new people, Joshua could have let his past experiences dictate his future. It wasn’t easy, but Joshua continued to take risks and is now celebrating 20 years sober.

On this episode of Success is Subjective, Joshua joins Joanna to share his experience going from an addict who couldn’t seem to make a change, to now working with addicts. Joshua’s story will be sure to inspire you that no matter how many times you fall, there’s room for change and to create a better future for yourself. Listen in for Joshua’s insight on how much connection and choosing to continue to take risks for himself, has impacted his life forever.

What You Will Learn

  • Moving every 3 years while growing up
  • Joshua’s decision to move away from home to be able to party in college
  • Living 2 lives in college
  • When Joshua got pulled out of college due to his substance use
  • The fear that Joshua felt about finding an alternative to substances. College can wait! 
  • How shame can play a powerful role in fueling addiction 
  • When Joshua went back to school 
  • What relapsing taught Joshua after being sober for awhile
  • Opposite of addiction is connection, not sobriety 
  • Going to grad school to get a degree in social work
  • Don’t let one thing dictate the rest of your life

Connect with Joshua New 

Resources

Joshua’s Blog about Recovery called The Mix Tape Diaries

Connect with Joanna Lilley