Success is Subjective: Helping parents of college students accept that dropping out is okay

Episode 42 — Navigating Life Outside of Being a Student Athlete —with Conor Baucum

December 15, 2020 Joanna Lilley, MA, NCC Season 1 Episode 42
Success is Subjective: Helping parents of college students accept that dropping out is okay
Episode 42 — Navigating Life Outside of Being a Student Athlete —with Conor Baucum
Show Notes

Being a student athlete can easily become one’s identity. From working to get good grades mainly for sports, to working day in and day out with a team for years that become like a family. When that gets taken away, it can be devastating learning how to live life outside of being a student athlete.

Conor Baucum grew up playing lacrosse and continued to play all throughout college. Not only was the sport basically his entire life, it was his identity. When he graduated college, navigating life and not being a student athlete wasn’t easy. After college, he started out working in the finance industry and went on to find the team environment he longed for at a tech company. Most recently, Conor has been consulting with entrepreneurs helping them to scale their businesses.

On this episode of Success is Subjective, Conor joins Joanna to share his journey going from a premiere men’s lacrosse program to navigating life outside of being an athlete. Even when it didn’t seem possible or worth it, he managed to find a new sense of success for himself. Listen in for Conor’s insight on how he’s managed to navigate finding passion and purpose outside of sports and what the journey has taught him.

What You Will Learn

  • The expectation to go to college to pursue lacrosse 
  • Conor’s experience as a student athlete
  • Being in a NCAA school 
  • The transition post college as a student athlete
  • Losing the identity of being a lacrosse player and how that devastated Conor
  • How a not so great job can still teach you a lot!
  • Desiring to be apart of a team environment again and how a tech company helped Conor find that
  • How COVID has allowed Conor to slow down 
  • Navigating learning disabilities in school
  • It’s okay to not know what you want to do and it’s okay to take time to figure it out

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